The very thought of using text messages to win back the heart of an ex probably seems crazy at first, which is exactly what drew me to Text Your Ex Back. Michael Fiore, the book’s author, has been featured on the Rachel Ray Show and some major media productions so there must be some people out there who respect him, right?
I still needed to see what this was all about because all conventional wisdom would say that you’re best off trying to do what it takes to get your ex back in person, or at least over the phone. Even emails give you the chance to say so much more than a quick text message would.
Michael Fiore has specific separate advice to offer to both women and men, as you’ll see right here.
After all, the two genders are wired completely differently and psychology plays a major role in something like this. So what exactly does this book share and what will you learn? And more importantly, does Text Your Ex Back really work?
You’re probably going through what I’ve personally been through a few times in my life. Everyone probably has. That sinking feeling in your chest, the loss of appetite, and the ability to do nothing but think about what he or she is doing. Checking their Facebook account obsessively to see if any new “friends” have been added to their life. Thinking about all the great times you’ve had together. It really is a devastating experience that makes you wonder how you were possibly a happy person before your relationship started.
The thing that Michael Fiore realizes is the fact that even when an ex thinks they’re ready to move on, there are certain psychological buttons that you can push to make them miss you. Really subtle things that you’re able to communicate without letting them know how vulnerable you’re feeling right now (you absolutely can’t act desperate and the book repeats this key point over and over). If you do these things in the right way, there’s a very realistic chance that you’ll be able to shift the dynamic of this breakup to the point where your ex suddenly starts thinking about how much better their life was with you, and then comes up with their “own” idea to start pursuing you again.
This strategy only works if they think it’s their idea, which is why the art of choosing your words so carefully is such a critical piece of the process. If you’re wondering what you’re supposed to say, you’ll be glad to know that the Text Your Ex Back ebook gives you a handful of sample templates and opening texts – but when it comes down to it, every situation is different and you’ll need to roll with the punches once things get going. Since the book teaches you so much about the psychology of winning back an ex and why relationships go bad to begin with, you’ll be really well equipped with the knowledge that you’ll need in order to make this happen.
Will this work for everyone? Of course not. It depends partially on why your relationship ended to begin with and how well disciplined you’re able to stay when it comes to the texts you send. Truthfully though, when all is said and done, if you’re still in love with your ex, getting them back is obviously worth a ton more than the $47 this book costs.
These approaches make perfect sense when you think about them and you’ll learn so many things that you’ll wish you were aware of while you two were actually together…which brings me to another point – in the event that you do end up getting back together, you’ll really have the knowledge that it takes to keep your lover’s interest as high as it was during the best of times.